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How to tell if it’s
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by Patricia
Majher
How do you know when “the magic is gone” from your job? For
restaurant manager Brad Chartier, the first sign was dreading the 45-
inute commute to work. “That drive really started to get to me,” he
says.
Then he began to feel fatigued: “I was on my feet and on the go all the
time. I was worried that I might be getting too old for the work.”
The kicker, though, was a cold that wouldn’t go away. “I’d have one a
month during the winter, and that really took its toll,” he admits.
According to career counselor Melanie Fuscaldo, Chartier experienced
some of the classic signs of job burnout. “First, there’s a lack of joy
or delight at the prospect of going to work. People find it difficult to
get out of bed, to get themselves going in the morning.”
And then, when you do get to work, she notes, your attitude doesn’t
usually improve: “Feelings of sadness, anxiety or anger can really color
your day.
“People in the midst of a job crisis may also begin to develop health
problems, such as headaches, stomachaches or sleeplessness,” Fuscaldo
continues, adding that your stress levels can make you susceptible to
infectious diseases, like Chartier’s recurring cold.
If you find yourself experiencing any of these emotional or physical
symptoms, what can you do? Your first step should probably be to talk to
somebody outside your organization who can give you confidential,
impartial advice. One option is an Employee Assistance Program
professional, if you have that benefit. Another is a career counselor
like Fuscaldo. “Everybody is different and moves at his or her own
pace,” Fuscaldo notes, “but we can usually make a good deal of progress
in four to eight sessions.”
A visit to a career counselor should include some assessment of who you
are–in terms of interests, skills, and values–and what career fields
might match up with your results. “I use the standard tools, such as the
government’s ‘Occupational Outlook Handbook’ to help people explore
career possibilities,” says Fuscaldo, “but
I also try to understand what their passions are.” Counselors
may also offer such services as resume and/or portfolio
reviews or practice interviewing to help you feel at ease, if job
hunting is in your future.
Fuscaldo emphasizes that leaving your job is not the only outcome of
career counseling. “Sometimes,
my clients come to the realization that they just need to make a shift
in their attitudes and the job will become more enjoyable. Or they
decide to take on a different set of responsibilities, or even
move to a different department.”
Brad Chartier tried the latter option, requesting a transfer to another
store in his restaurant’s chain. When that transfer didn’t materialize
within a reasonable time, though, he decided it was time to leave the
business altogether.
A want ad for a position in banking caught his eye and propelled him
into a new career field that he embraces with no regrets. “No more
commuting and no more colds,” says Chartier. “It was worth making
the change.”
Five questions to ask before you make a move
Bob Roener, author of a book called “Working Wounded” and
creator of a Web site of the same name, acknowledges that
emotional and physical problems are a sure sign of the need to
change jobs. He also suggests you ask yourself the following
five questions before you decide to move on:
1 Do you have a good boss? Roener
says he’s yet to find a job that paid enough to compensate for a
lousy manager.
2 Is there adequate room for
advancement? It may not be reasonable to expect a promotion
every six months, but Roener thinks after five years you should
be moving on up.
3 Are you still learning new
things? Do you have opportunities for professional development?
If not, it might be time to move on.
4 Is there an element of fun in
your job? We could all use a laugh sometimes. Or a break. Or,
simply, a light-hearted attitude. If the most minor celebrations
are discouraged in your workplace, you might want to think twice
about staying.
5 And, finally, is this the best
opportunity for you at this time? Roener’s a big proponent of
always being on the lookout for your next job. Keep your resume
updated, he advises, and network constantly, because you never
know when a better job might come your way.
“As far as the downturn goes–even amidst the layoffs–companies
are hiring good people when they’re right for the job,” Roener
notes. “So sniff around. Bark loud enough in the right places
and you ought to be able to line up a new job before you bite
the bullet and quit this one.”
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